Love Like You've Never Been Hurt: Ch. 9

70% of men will cheat on their wives.

60% of women will cheat on their husbands.

Let those statistics sink in for a moment! It is obvious that the enemy hates marriage and has an all out war on your marriage. Therefore, you must be on guard, alert, and ready to do any and everything to protect that covenant of marriage. Sex is powerful and must be kept in the confines of marriage. If not, it hurts not only the person who was betrayed, but the betrayer, and every member of the family.

Before the enemy gets you in the bed, he has to get in your head. page 139

Jentezen Franklin gives us 4 steps to affair proof your marriage:

Get it out of your head

Respect one another

Take responsibility

Rekindle the romance

Have a made up mind

“ Don’t look out for your own interest, but take an interest in others, too.”

Philippians 2:4

Quit looking to other person to fix and fix whatever problem you have. Each of us must realize that we need God, especially if you are married. We must be committed, remember divorce is not an option! Each of us has a part to play and can change the atmosphere. He also lists principles for the men and women. Make sure you read chapter 9 and let’s affair proof our marriages!